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Yelled at an Asshole Harasser on Gemmayze: “girls like me are strong and not afraid to make a scene!”

Today like everyday, I was walking around waiting for the bus to go home. As I was waiting I heard a car honking, my first thought was maybe this was a taxi and he was honking to ask me where I’m going, but what I saw was a car with a while number plate, not red like taxis have!

A little voice in my head was asking me to unleash my fury while another said maybe he was asking for directions. I approached the car with confidence but also I was careful.

I asked the 40 year old man how I can help me, he told me to come in. Ahaaa, that was all I wanted to hear, that little nod he did that says “get in the car”, the way his hands removed an object placed by the driver’s seat were exactly the signs I was looking for, a reason to vent without feeling guilty!

I started yelling at him in Jemmayzé’s busy street, everybody heard and saw what I was doing. The man instantly blushed and apologized but I kept yelling at him and saying “girls aren’t toys for you to play with, they aren’t here to please, girls like me are strong and not afraid to make a scene!”

Damn it, I wish I was able to take a picture of him before he drove away, ashamed of himself…

To be honest, I’m starting not to mind being harassed by random guys for two reasons, the first is that I have a busy life, so I could use something to vent some of that build up pressure, and second because I know I can -and I will- stand up for myself, while other girls might not, so I stand up and show those guys that girls are raising their voices and refuse to be silent any longer!

Submitted by Res Light

Location: Gemmayze – Mar Mikhael

Time of harassment: 16-20: Afternoon Rush Hour / العصر

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هل لديك تجربة شخصية مع التحرش الجنسي أو الاعتداء تريد مشاركته ؟ الرجاء الضغط هنا

I saw her harassed in Dawra- but I took this picture & the guy got scared and ran away!


i was participating into the Protest against our Sectarian system on Sunday 26/2/2012 in Dawra Area .

We were waiting to start the Protest and i was taking photos around.
Suddenly i saw this man trying to stop this women . And he touched her and tried to stay infront of her by closing the street to not let her pass.

She tried to cross and pass by moving his body away from her by her hand as you can see . And when he turned, and saw me taking this photo…He turned and left , maybe scared from any kind of Reactions we will take to stop him from doing that again .

And in this way, she left too and continue walking forward and crossed the Road .

Shame on him and this stupid mentality of thinking of Women …

Submitted by Abdallah

Location: Dawra

Time of harassment: 16-20: Afternoon Rush Hour / العصر

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هل لديك تجربة شخصية مع التحرش الجنسي أو الاعتداء تريد مشاركته ؟ الرجاء الضغطهنا

I fight back against harassers in Charqieh, Gharbieh, and everywhere in between!

I was going back home alone that day from Roadster Ashrafiyeh to Hamra, it takes a 10 minute drive but lucky me I couldn’t find a service since they consider it as “charqieh – gharbieh” so hell no they won’t drive me there!

- NEWS FLASH PEOPLE, the civil war ended long before I was even born! -

so I kept walking and walking in a hope to find a taxi or anything that could drive me anywhere near home… But after waiting for an hour in the rain and the taxi company said that they need an hour minimum to provide me with a taxi, I decided to walk home!

I reached downtown, or to be exact “Bab-Idris” and suddenly an old guy jumps out of no where and talks to me, I couldn’t hear him since I was listening to music at the time, but I was able to hear him say in his egyptian accent “eih ya gamil, ma betroddesh leih?”…

as usual I SNAPPED! I started yelling at him and saying in arabic “do I look like I’m in the mood for you, or for anyone else to harass me? Yeah, answer me? WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE? (&@#^(*$#” even though it was around 6pm (winter time) and it was kind of dark, but I could see the shock on his face.

He was terrified, he didn’t see it coming. He didn’t expect that a girl would speak up and refuse harassment, especially not in the way that I did…

After yelling at him, I turned my back, took a deep breath and kept walking! that would teach anybody to mess with me again! :P

Submitted by Red Light

Location: Bad Idriss, Downtown

Time of harassment:   16-20: Afternoon Rush Hour / العصر

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هل لديك تجربة شخصية مع التحرش الجنسي أو الاعتداء تريد مشاركته ؟ الرجاء الضغط هنا وملء استمارة التقديم على الانترنت. وتنشر جميع التقارير مجهول ما لم تحدد

Assaulted Verbally in Hamra

As I was walking with two other girls on Sadat street, right in front of Makhfar Hbeish, a guy jumping on his motorcycle said “There’s a boob on the right and a boob on the left!”

Of course, her said that in arabic no need to translate it here though, since it sounds as disgusting as his face!!

Submitted by SA

Location: Sadat Street – Right in front of Makhfar Hbeish, Hamra

Time of harassment:   10-16: Daytime / عز النهار

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هل لديك تجربة شخصية مع التحرش الجنسي أو الاعتداء تريد مشاركته ؟ الرجاء الضغط هنا وملء استمارة التقديم على الانترنت. وتنشر جميع التقارير مجهول ما لم تحدد

I have a stalker- what do I do??

So there is one guy coming near my building each evening since some days , asking me questions about myself , he says he has memory about me some years ago i was going to one computer shop where he used to go as well .

now it is weird situation because it is happening that he keeps walking each evening around 8pm and whenever i am driving my car between 8pm 12am hes there .. to tell me hello .. and it is getting more weird in fact because now he s telling me hello to add to that to speak about my ‘beauty’ and now he wants bring me gifts like today he gave me chocolate .

i am very much feeling bad i do not know how to do or how to stop him because i know nothing about this person and he might hurt me or any thing especially that he lives near .

please give me advice what to do ?

Submitted by Dalia

Location: Baucherieh

Time of harassment:   20-2: Night / الليل

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هل لديك تجربة شخصية مع التحرش الجنسي أو الاعتداء تريد مشاركته ؟ الرجاء الضغط هنا وملء استمارة التقديم على الانترنت. وتنشر جميع التقارير مجهول ما لم تحدد

“constantly feel like your body has to cringe while you pass by…”

The daily amount of emotional physical and verbal aggression the average Lebanese woman has to deal with is something that needs to be addressed and punished by law! The constant feeling of having your guards up and defenses at any given time of the day, no matter where you are .

To always be prepared to hear   the most vulgar and offensive words thrown at you so freely and with such arrogance, To constantly feel like your body has to cringe while you pass by…

And if you do decide to defend yourself ,9 times out of ten ,you will hear the answer of : “wlik mashina hal3 ma bida  hal3ad, sabiyeh helweh badna nihke” ahhh!

They have the arrogance to justify it instead of shutting up and putting their heads down where their fat bellies and tiny genitals are!
Why do they do this, because they freaking can and they know they get away with it –
The worst part is, These boys…. think they are men!

Submitted by kissed by a fairy

Location: N/A

Time of harassment: N/A

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هل لديك تجربة شخصية مع التحرش الجنسي أو الاعتداء تريد مشاركته ؟ الرجاء الضغط هنا وملء استمارة التقديم على الانترنت. وتنشر جميع التقارير مجهول ما لم تحدد

“We can’t be living in a country where it is acceptable for men to do whatever they want to women. We should value ourselves more.”

I was walking to university with my friend. Suddenly i see a very big and tall man leaning over me. He whispered in my ear how he wanted to fondle my breasts and then pinched my butt. I froze because i was so shocked.

My friend pulled my hand and we ran together to the university gate. There were many people on the street. Also, three girls were staring at us in shock. This is one of the few incidents i have encountered.

When i lived in makdisi street,the same men use to shout out the same vulgar remarks everyday. Surprisingly, the darak were the ones that use to harass me the most.

I went to university in beirut and in kaslik. In both universities many professors have the habit of obscenely checking me and other girls out. Last week i was talking to my professor. He is fifty and is married with two kids. While i was talking to him he was staring at my breasts and then cut me off and walked away. I didn’t say anything because i did not want to upset him. Upsetting him might make him fail me. . .

I reached a point were i got used to this behaviour since it is so common and no one will hold them accountable. This is very bad. Something should be done to limit harassment. We can’t be living in a country where it is acceptable for men to do whatever they want to women. We should value ourselves more.

Submitted by Anonymous

Location: Hamra & Kaslik

Time of harassment: 10-16: Daytime / عز النهار

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هل لديك تجربة شخصية مع التحرش الجنسي أو الاعتداء تريد مشاركته ؟ الرجاء الضغط هنا وملء استمارة التقديم على الانترنت. وتنشر جميع التقارير مجهول ما لم تحدد

“no wonder you’re sitting with 8 men on a saturday night, try a different strategy coz this one is clearly not getting you anywhere!”

I was walking past a restaurant/shisha place and i heard the usual “yiy yiy yiy shou hal sha’feh, yo’borne jamela” – it doesn’t sound too bad when you read it but you should have heard the tone of his voice and the extra sound effects!

i turned around and said “are you talking to me or are you saying things loud enough for me to hear them?” – and then there was silence. his friends all turned around and looked at him as he scrapped up his brain cells to come up with a clever answer.

He said something along the line of “i’m just admiring”, so i quickly replied “if this is admiration, no wonder you’re sitting with 8 men on a saturday night at a shisha place, try a different strategy coz this one is clearly not getting you anywhere, is it..”

I walked off at he mumbled things i could not and did not want to hear. I’ll think of some other stories as I’ve been a lot feistier since i turned 25 :)

silence only reinforces such behavior, speak up girls and be wise with your words!

Submitted by pbk

Location:  between Sassine and Saydeh Church, Ashrafieh

Time of harassment: 16-20: Afternoon Rush Hour / العصر

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هل لديك تجربة شخصية مع التحرش الجنسي أو الاعتداء تريد مشاركته ؟ الرجاء الضغط هنا وملء استمارة التقديم على الانترنت. وتنشر جميع التقارير مجهول ما لم تحدده

“i attacked him the way he attacked me..and im proud of it!..”

It is somewhat a minor incident but i was kind of proud of my reaction cz i usually just get silently angry!

so i was walking with my mom when three young men walked towards us saying obnoxious stuff and one of them was like “ana badi emro2 bl noss bayneton” with the ugliest smirk ever, and he stretched his hands to maybe try and touch whatever he can..

so i moved away and i looked straight at him and i shouted “Khalas ba2a, shou hl ellet l fehem hydi” i dont know if it was the right thing to do, but he looked shocked and kind of “mabkhou3″ so he threw a “kes ekhtek” at me as he walked away with his friends laughing at him, with him…

i have no idea! I didnt mind him cursing at me, i pissed him off! i attacked him the way he attacked me..and im proud of it!..

Submitted by SNA

Location:  Tariq el Mina, Tripoli

Time of harassment: 10-16: Daytime / عز النهار

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هل لديك تجربة شخصية مع التحرش الجنسي أو الاعتداء تريد مشاركته ؟ الرجاء الضغط هنا وملء استمارة التقديم على الانترنت. وتنشر جميع التقارير مجهول ما لم تحدده

“i wished i had done something, like pushed the asshole or hit him in the…”

this happened 4 or 5 years ago when i was in high school and i used to walk to school. i was two blocks away, when a guy was walking towards me in the opposite direction and started the usual “toltish”, noting that i was wearing the school’s unattractive and all-covering uniform and i had my usual angry look on my face whenever i see a guy coming.

i crossed the street so as to avoid his very charming sweet talk, but he crossed too in a way that he almost touched me if hadn’t picked up my pace. this made me so angry that i wished i had done something, like pushed the asshole or hit him in the….

Submitted by R.K.

Location: Ghobeiri

Time of harassment: 6-10: Morning Rush Hour / الصباح

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هل لديك تجربة شخصية مع التحرش الجنسي أو الاعتداء تريد مشاركته ؟ الرجاء الضغط هنا وملء استمارة التقديم على الانترنت. وتنشر جميع التقارير مجهول ما لم تحدده